Steadfast Life Podcast & Blog

EPISODE QUESTIONS:

1. I don't really LIKE to set goals, they give me a lot of pressure. Do I NEED to set goals?

2. If it's not about the goal, then HOW do you stay motivated day in and day out?

Would you like to have Whit and Jake by your side as you build the consistency required to live as big as you secretly want to?  Start here: TRUST U INFO

How you think about you makes a difference.

This has been one of the biggest learning curves. I grew up in a dysfunctional household with alcoholics, so stability and safety felt like a luxury. It was more of a special occasion rather than a normality. I know I’m not alone in this department but learning that didn’t make the changes any easier.

The way I thought about myself- who I was and what I was capable of doing was very limiting. These beliefs felt true and didn't seem optional. It was more comfortable to feel chaotic then to experience peace.

Some of the thoughts I had about myself included, “I’m broken beyond repair”, “I’ll never reach a safe place,” and “I’m unworthy of that type of love.”

These thoughts created behaviors that made quitting easy when things got tough. I'd quickly leave relationships when I felt threatened. I would settle for almost anything if I got it easily. My...

EPISODE QUESTIONS:

1. How do I have SELF-worth when my faith says I am worthy only through Jesus?

2. Whit - is it hard to get stuff done when you're always around Jake and he's so funny? Do sometimes spend the whole day laughing?

Would you like to have Whit and Jake by your side as you build the consistency required to live as big as you secretly want to?

Start here: https://www.steadfastlifecoaching.com

EPISODE QUESTIONS:

How do I forgive someone who has actually wronged me without letting them walk all over me?

My kid plays sports and I want them to be process focused, but they are ACTUALLY judged based on their results by coaches, teammates, and even the community. How do I do that?

Would you like to have Whit and Jake by your side as you build the consistency required to live as big as you secretly want to?

Start here: https://www.steadfastlifecoaching.com/trust-u-info-page

Whit and Jake are Life Coaches and owners at Steadfast Life Coaching.  

In this video series they answer YOUR questions for your entertainment as well as your growth.  

EPISODE QUESTIONS:  

My mom is rude and judgmental.  Do you have any suggestions besides avoiding her?   Do you ever annoy each other?  What do you do about it?  

Would you like to have Whit and Jake by your side as you build the consistency required to live as big as you secretly want to?  

Start here: https://www.steadfastlifecoaching.com/trust-u-info-page

Since, my sophomore year in high school I felt an inner pain that I wanted to escape. The pain stemmed from unresolved childhood issues, having an alcoholic father. I didn’t know what to do with it, all I knew is that it felt suffocating at times.

On top of that, I felt an external pressure. I was in Varsity sports, Student council, and voted Homecoming queen. Event though, no one vocalized pressure on me, I felt it. I didn’t want to let people down and got most of my confidence from other’s validation.

I couldn’t keep it up. The internal pain and external pressure became too much to handle.

By the end of my Junior year in high school I was using drugs, sex and alcohol to numb and escape. It’s all I knew. These outlets gave me relief but temporary. For the moment, I felt more free and numb. I chased these momentary highs, constantly needing more just to feel normal. This way of coping became my life.

Until I’d hit rock bottom...

Sometimes Whitney and I fight!!  We have built a business on a foundation of us being connected and in love - we did that on purpose!!  We WANTED the inspiration to FIND SOLUTIONS instead of numb, pout, and hide.  Well ...it worked.

I had a BIG BREAKTHROUGH a few nights back and I wanted to share it.  If you've ever felt angry with someone and simultaneously wished you weren't feeling angry, don't miss this.

There's no "step 1 step 2 and step 3" in this one - it's raw and it's real ...but everything you need is in there.

If this stirs up anything for you and you want to talk it through - we're here for you.  Pick your date and time and get a BREAKTHROUGH